In our society, foreplay seems to be connected with boys providing women their unique “due”, and slowing down your way to climax. So as a result of pride, social constructs, unusual man problems and yada yada…they might never ever also consider this quick concept.
Become intense and slow down the foreplay without requesting permission. Intimately torture your by teasing him longer and “edging” your towards orgasm…but then decrease in power. Now begin once again, doing something else that makes your burn with desire.